Some Cute Stuff I Saw At The Mall...

I've been looking for a black bag for a while that I could wear with everything. Unfortunately, I'm looking for a bag with a short handle as well as a long handle. This one didn't have that so I passed on it.

Plus, i'm trying to wait until H&M sends me a 20% off coupon for Canada and not the U.S!

 I found these cute little bra tops at Sirens. They would look super cute with some high waist pants and a leather coat or blazer.

 I love backpacks and these animal print ones are just way too cute. 

These were at H&M as well. 

 Last but not least is this cute little pink haired Piggie!

Behind The Pretty...

What you see if not what you get.

I know I talk about the sexy on my blog all the time.
Makeup and clothes and being pretty.
You know some real superficial shit

BUT!

It must be known that there is so much more to me.
I only say this, not to get approval for all my sexy talk or raunchy-ness (Lol)
but just to say there is always more to the girl.

I'm a college grad, who is still in school. (4.0 baby)
I seem tough (I am) but i'm also very sensitive, a cry baby, and a poetic genius (Yes, I write).
I'm a daughter, sister, aunt(super aunt!), girlfriend, friend(Loyal ass friend to the end!)...
And so much more.

All in all, I just want to say. Don't ever change who you are for anybody. If you crazy on the outside but you are a smart ass chick and you live your life for you-don't ever care what anyone else says about you or who other people want you to be. Be you :)

That Fly Chick...

Snacks

I go through phases where I get addicted to certain foods.

For a while it has been pretzels and cupcakes.

"Life begins at the end of your comfort zone"

Hey Dolls

When you think animal print bottoms with thigh high leather boots what do you think?
Hooker right.
Lol
Me too.

But, I put this outfit together to run to the store. Yes, just the store. But that's just me.
Too much sometimes.
And I loved it.
I'm all about the sexy.

Jacket>Ross

Tee-shirt>The boyfriends

Bottoms>Dots

Boots>Random boutique.

 A closer look at the pattern. I love it.

My top beauty tips.

Define beauty.

You can't. There are so many types of beauty.

These are my top tips that I use and that I believe are essential to make oneself prettier. 

 1.) Eyebrows are essential. They frame the face and make even a bare face so much more attractive. Some may think my eyebrows are too severe or not soft enough, no matter your preference, it is essential that you clean them up.
2.)Foundation/Good Skin. Having a clear even canvas to start with is essential so it is important that you moisturize and hydrate your skin. From there matching the right foundation to your skin tone is very important.
3.)Eyelashes. They make your eyes wider and brighter
4.) Great Hair. I believe hair can make you or break you. It makes you more confident or makes you gave a shitty day.
5.)Smelling good. I think a lady should always smell like a lady.
6.) Blush. I promise you. It really helps the overall look of your face. It contours and is beautiful.

Long Time No See !!!

Not really though. Lol
It's only been about 6 days but that is forever in the blog world.

I had to purchase more blog space! Can you guys believe I have used up all of my free storage space.
I was tempted to delete some stuff. Lol


Anyways, here are some pics from not too long ago.

Top>Walmart (I diy'd the letters)

Necklace > Rue 21

Tights>Sirens

My Top 3 Perfumes

Hey Dolls

I believe that it is very important for a woman to smell pretty and like a lady.
I always make it a point to try and smell pretty around my babe...of course so he can remember my scent whenever I am away.

Dolce and Gabbana Light Blue.

I am so in love with this scent.

It is more so made for the summer.

It smells salty and beachy with a mix of Hawaiian Tropic sun tan oil.

Donna Karen Cashmere

This is my babes favorite.

This is more of a evening scent.

It smells fresh, strong and deep but womanly.

 Rihanna Reb'l Fleur

I love this scent but i'm very biased because I'm such a Rihanna Stan 

This one can be worn anytime, summer, winter, morning, night.

It's pretty, girly, sweet and dominant. 

Just perfect. 

"What other people think of me is none of my business"

Beyond True

Hey Dolls.
I had such a good workout today.
But after my great workout I had a sub with white bread...
so bad.

Baby is trying to get me to eat wheat. :I die:

 Top>Tillys

Leggings>Lmfao.bigcartel.com 

(now know as partytrockclothing.com)

It's Sunday

Mostly read and catch up on a bunch of blogs :)

Southern Beauty

I love being from the south and i'm grateful for being raised in the south.
I love our accent, our swag style (I hate the word swag), our toughness yet sweetness.

Speaking of the south. I'm missing the food the most.
Popeyes
Chic-fil-a
Zaxbys

Just southern food in General.

 I also noticed that it can be annoying to read and hear people always talking about where they are from.

I won't do too much of it.

Mostly because I get sick when I hear people say 

"Big up Brooklyn"!

"Killa Cali"!

and so on...

Ugh! annoying.

Lol.

Tank>Forever 21

Leggings>Body Central

My Friday Truth

1.) I love ratchet music. Like, I mean down south, heavy bass, songs made for strippers ratchet music.

Booty shaking, weave throwing, baby mamma ratchet music.

Lol.

For real.

And that my dolls, is my Friday Truth

I Learned How To Swin

Seriously.
I have not known how to swim my entire life but my other half forced me gently persuaded me to learn.

Now, I won't be able to save your life or my own life but at least I can kick myself from one end of the pool to the other end without drowning :)

In this small dark area where they keep all of the pool toys.

Am I the only girl who always has to have a photo session.

Lol

I don't know why my face is looking extra crazy right now. 

I'm actually swimming!!!!!!!!!!

Positivity

I woke up this morning after not such a great night and I wrote down a page full of notes on how to be more positive and how to deal with negative people.

I will share some of the best ones here from time to time.

It is up to me to choose how I want to feel about it. I am in control of my happiness levels and no one can take that away from me.

90's

This top reminds me of the 90's. Just the updated version.
My older cousins used to wear these baby tees that would have stripes and a huge heart in the middle.
If you watched the movie Clueless than you know what i'm talking about.

Anywho, when I saw this one with animal print and that same 90's heart, I had to get it.

Jacket>Ross

Shirt>Dots

Leggings>H&M

Funny!!!

Only because I had Spaghetti tonight
and this will for sure happen to me tomorrow.

40% Off At H&M !!!

Hey Dolls!

I guess no one wanted my little ole coupon. Lol!
Moving along.

I'm sure you all know i'm in Canada right now.

Well, I just received a email with a coupon for 40% off one item at H&M valid from today until the 14th.

But...the problem is that it is only valid in the U.S

So...I guess the first person to respond in the comment section can have it. Just say that you want it and them email me your email address so I can forward it to you. 

That easy :)

P.S- You can find my email address at the bottom of the page

P.S.S-You don't have to be a follower but it would be nice if you were one ;)

>Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself

The Face

Two Pretty Ladies

Mrs. Santa

Hey Dolls

 Bracelets>Ava's accessories 

 Oh...and although this looks like a rushed job (because I was) I sent this to my mommy with a bunch of gifts inside for her b-day :)

The Dream of Stopping Traffic

Not to blow my own whistle but I have. Lol !
Too much. Yea too much :)
Anywho...This skirt will have you stopping traffic in no time.
Just that little hint of skin on the side from the slits will have eyes turning baby!

 Top>Rue 21

Skirt> Dots

Beautiful Rooms

When I move or redecorate I want to paint my room Tiffany Blue with  glass accents.
This is just a couple of pics that have inspired me.

Obsessed

I Love sending post cards to my Family

 I love the Dollar Store. You find such cute things.

And babes mom bought me these beaded necklaces. I love them so much! 

 Closer view of their beauty.

Please Go Out & Vote

Please. All of my  fellow American Dolls and Guys, take some time out today and Vote.
I don't care which party you vote for just exercise your right to do so.
If I can do it from Canada you can do it too!

 It's no secret i'm team Obama :)

The Blackout.

I love wearing all black.
It's so sexy without trying to hard.

 Top>Forever 21

Leggings>Papaya

 Shoes>Shoezon 

Jacket> Ross

 

Interracial Relationships.

I was asked a while ago by someone who visited my blog to do a post on my relationship because I am in a interracial relationship.
I waited so long to do this post because when I wrote this post I wanted to make sure I had the proper time to sit down to say the right things as well as the fact that my babe is not a picture person so I really wouldn't have a picture to show you guys.
(The one I did have on here was the back of his head Lol)

I think it is important for me to point out that I have only been in 2 relationships my entire life and both were with white boys. The first one was 5yrs and this one has been 2yrs this month!

With that said, I cant really compare an interracial relationship to a "regular' same race relationship. 

I honestly wish I knew what questions specifically the reader wanted to know so I could answer them.

What can I say about being in a interracial relationship? Well, It's fun! I find it very interesting being with someone who is not like me yet loves me because I am so different than him. 

We have fun. I make white jokes, he makes black jokes and it's cool knowing it's not coming from a mean place but a fun, cool place because he is my best friend and we just get each other. 

I feel like the relationship is deeper and more intense because when someone is not like you, it makes you want to know so much more about them and be that much more close to them. 

I will admit the first time I was in a interracial relationship, I did not want him to know that I had weave but this time around, please, he knows! 

Yep, don't pull my hair because this is not all real. Lol 

On the flip side, being in a interracial relationship in Canada is so much different than being in one in America. In America black girls like it and will smile at you but black guys hate it and say little things here and there. The white people are 50/50. The ones that are ok with it just smile and the ones who don't like it will never say anything, they will just look.

In Canada, No one says anything. No one even looks like it is out of the norm which is really cool. 

Overall, I love my baby and I honestly don't even see the color of his skin. He is just a person. There is so many things I could say but this post would never end. If I had more direct specific questions I could have done a better job at writing this. 

 If there are any more questions please email @ girlsaredolls@yahoo.com or just comment below :)